When I was younger I
remember always wanting to read, however wanting something and actually
doing
it can be two very different things. The idea of getting lost in a book always
fascinated me, although I was never as passionate about it as I wanted. I
would always get distracted by going out with friends or playing video games;
when younger, understandably, the two latter options were always considered
more important. I found the only time I was really motivated to read was after
watching the film Matilda, and no doubt that was because I was under the
illusion that superpowers proceed hours of vigorous reading. To this day I kick
myself because I think “imagine how much more you would know now if you had
taken the time as a child to really get into reading”…
I suppose the term “better late than never” is
an appropriate phrase for my current situation.
So, many years down the
line and many life lessons later I have made it my mission to fit a
considerable amount of reading into my lifestyle. I have always had a thirst
for knowledge, however for some reason it took me a year at university to
realise that this thirst can be quenched with the millions of books available
at my disposal via; bookshops, charity shops, kindle, libraries, and the
internet. Now going into my 3rd academic year and many book
purchases later, I am so much more informed about the world around us, I feel I
am more comfortable when participating in intellectual conversations (it is
nice to have something to talk about that is not just psychology based, because
not everyone studies it), and my mind has been open to the benefits of
vicariously learning through the experiences and knowledge of others.
Reading as a whole is
obviously very important, although my preference of book is predominantly fact
over fiction. I do like to read a fictitious novel parallel to a book that I
can gain real world knowledge from, but it is not my primary focus. Much
enjoyment can come from losing myself in a story but I do not feel that it can
provide me with any knowledge based advantages (that is not to say that they
don’t, no doubt one’s literacy can increase as a result, however that among
other things can be learnt when reading factually accurate books). And from
personal experience I think reading in general is a greatly un-appreciated form
of learning. For the sake of spending £5 in a charity bookshop you can learn
some of the most amazing things. It helps to put many things into perspective,
not only do I feel like it increases intellect but I think that it can help you
become a more rounded person as a result.
I can understand that to
some people reading can seem boring, but if you look at the big picture reading
is more advantageous than it is a waste of time. For what reason are we even on
this planet if it isn’t to learn? (and reproduce but that is beside the point).
And for those people that claim to have no time, you will be surprised how much
you can read in 30 minutes. I work on weekends, go to university 5 times a week
and train martial arts 4 evenings of the week. If I can find time I am sure you
can, it is just a matter of prioritising.
I am not belittling or
trying to negatively portray those that don’t read. It is completely your
decision, learning can come from many areas of life besides reading. I just
wanted to explain some of the added benefits reading can produce and how
interesting/inspiring it can really be. Throughout this post I have probably
painted myself as someone who spends all their spare time hunched over in a
quiet room reading a book. This is only partly true :) I do enjoy a social life and also make time for other hobbies too, which proves
that as long as you prioritise, you can still fit things such as reading in.
For anyone that has read
this until the end, I thank you and wish you all the best.
Au revoir until my next
post :)
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